Jonathan –
Sorry for the slow response. I have not had much luck in turning a friend into a lover, with or without the poems, and I have heard from a lot of guys, but I can't recall anyone who said the poems helped them do that, either. I had a recent experience with a friend who was initially a lover. The affair was brief, and we have been friends for years. On my last two visits I tried to turn it into a "friends with benefits" arrangement. No go.
I think once a woman puts you in the "friend zone" you are gonna stay there. Women tend to think of male friends as if they were a brother or a girlfriend. Someone to relate to, share feelings with and even feel love (platonic) for. It would be almost incestuous for them to think of you sexually,
In many cases a guy will have strong feelings for a woman but is too shy to tell her how he really feels. He acts non-threatening and trustworthy and dependable and caring. Trouble is, none of those things are really turn-ons for women. They are somewhat necessary in the early stages of a relationship, but you have to move fairly quickly to flirting and making some moves, else you are stuck forever.
The exception would be when the woman has been wanting to have the sexual relationship all along, and if so, you probably already know it. And in a lot of cases if she is a friend because she is a friend of your girlfriend, you can turn that to your advantage.
My advice is to push the limits and let her know you would like to be more than friends. Trouble is that most guys do not have the huevos to make a move and so end up miserable in an unrequited love. Making a move may spoil the friendship, but you have to find out where you stand, and be prepared to lose them. And be prepared to look for someone else to take care of those biological needs.
Phil Billitz
503-886-9491
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Sent: Thursday, March 17, 2016 12:35 PM
To: 'Phil'
Subject: RE: [PRBG] the best time
Hello Mr. Phil,
Just want to write that these poems so far are very extraordinary. I haven't had the chance to find the one woman I want to hone into and read a lot of these poems to. But to some of the women that I have read some of the poems to, their reactions have been nothing but amazing. My question for you is, have you ever read these poems to any of your female friends and they started to see you more than just a friend? Thank you.
From: hypno-seduction@aweber.com [mailto:hypno-seduction@aweber.com] On Behalf Of Phil
Sent: Thursday, March 17, 2016 9:06 AM
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Subject: [PRBG] the best time
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